Δευτέρα, 25 Ιουλίου 2011

vice.

Have you ever asked yourself why do bad things happen? Of course you have. You have also wondered why do they happen to you, eventhough you know that bad things happen to every single living creature on earth. You weren't possibly capable to give the right answer. Sometimes it is your fault , so you'd better admit it in order to continue your life without lies, because a life full of lies becomes a really big lie , and you'll be the only one to believe it.
Bad things may happen because of some people who may wanna do harm to you, too. They might have a reason because you had done something bad to them in the past and they want to take revenge, or they just want to find something to do, and you are the first person they find and start spreading rumors about you, without having the right to do so.These rumors, if believed, lead to some really negative disastrous results, whom ramifications will do harm only to you, because you're the one that has been misunderstood and partly innocent.Misunderstanding is the basic cause of bad events and the main factor of disagreements and of that "spreading of rumors",too. Another important factor is the desire of some people to do harm to you only because they are jealous of you.Without any important reasons.Just because you have got a life.You have achieved some things and they may not have. And eventhough you are the one who has been misunderstood , your friends , who have known you for  longer chronical period than the one for whom other people have, should ask you which of these rumors are real and which are fake and then talk to you and show you that they are next to you.They may decide that they are not, they are not your friends anymore and that your relationship with now and on will be just typical.But before doing so they should talk to you , and explain their reasons. And they should listen to your option about what has happened and the whole misunderstaning thing, too. But  if they decide just to believe some idiot rumors and ignore what you haved gone through until that moment together, ignore what they liked about your character before, forget to think that a real friendship can not be destroyed because of such an idiot reason , they should probably not be called "friends". They are able to make their decisions , and you have to make yours. But a real human relationship which is called friendship, wouldn't end like this. I 'm not saying that the person who has been misunderstood is completely innocent. A part has to be true , because where smoke exists , there's probably a fire. But it's impossible that the "fire"of a cigarette creates a cloud of smoke, capable to cover a whole city.The person who has just lost a friend, in this case this person is you, has also made some mistakes , too. And you'd better try to improve your character and what you don't like about it and become a better person, but in order to do so you need your friends by your side cause they're friends and not enemies. They may be scared because of some rumors and abandon you because they are thinking of the ocassion in which you abandon or harm them , and they don't wanna be abandoned , so they do exactly this thing to you by believing these awful rumors!



p.s. hadn't writen in english for a long time :/

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  1. In situations like this, when you loose a friend because of a misunderstanding, you have to look in the "bright" side of the things... If it wasn't a real friend you would may have lost him in a more important sad part of your life.
    Situations like this made us realize who are our real friends and who knows us better(:

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